iStock 1092276756 e1560976731858
Superstitions exist in societies all around the world, and many of them are rooted in cultural traditions that have impacted the way people think and behave for generations. They reflect a lot about our shared hopes and fears and, for many, they are an important part of daily life. When it comes to superstitions about women, they are more than plentiful — and can sometimes (though certainly not always) be rooted in some form of sexist or archaic thinking.
Women the world over have been discriminated against since, well, forever. Consider one of the most famous texts ever written — The Book of Genesis. In this story, the evil of man is rooted in Adam and Eve’s disobedience to God — and, of course, it was Eve who took the first bite of the apple, having given into the temptation of a serpent. Then she shared the apple with Adam, and because God had forbidden this, they were promptly punished.
As an article published at Sweet Briar College puts it, “[The] Book of Genesis has served as the primary source in the West for definitions of gender and morality…. Moreover, this view of Eve, and of women in general, has been insinuated into the culture to such an extent that both men and women believe it defines a natural condition of women. It is a pernicious view and the degree to which it continues to subtly influence in negative ways our perception of women must be constantly born in mind while looking at the images of women in these pages.”
To this day, women who embrace their sexuality, are loud or opinionated, or are particularly smart are perceived as threats — and treated as such. For many years in numerous cultures, if a woman deviated from certain social norms she was believed to be working with the Devil himself.
[fm_giphy url=”https://media.giphy.com/media/HbvaeI4Lg0FOw/giphy.gif”]
These might not seem like particularly superstitious ideas right off the bat, but the power behind many long-standing superstitions is very real and can have serious repercussions — particularly when it comes to the spreading of reductive ideas about women.
For instance, in the U.S. and the U.K., people are told not to go camping with menstruating women because they might attract bears.
Meanwhile, in Colombia, they say that women shouldn’t wash or cut their hair while on their period; and in Romania, a menstruating woman can bring death to flowers by simply touching them. Death to flowers!
Then, in India, it’s said that a woman shouldn’t enter a kitchen or cook food for people while menstruating.
In the Middle Ages, women were banned from attending church if they were bleeding, as it was believed that their blood could curdle milk or mess with the jam-making process. Even today many people think menstrual blood is gross — and cue the tampon tax.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BynZvOenTMk/”]
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BwIN2gihpdT/”]
In 2001, Goran Ivanisevic played Wimbledon and forbade his girlfriend from attending “because he thinks women will bring him bad luck.”
Women are thought to distract men from their duties. BUT WAIT — nude ladies could still totally hang out on ship decks (hence the topless women we often see on the bow of ships), but that’s only because nude ladies were baring their breasts, which “shamed the stormy seas into calm.” Yes, you read that correctly. Women are a distraction — until their boobs are useful.
Like the superstition in Ireland that on leap day, women are finally allowed to propose to men. This is rooted in the myth that St. Brigid once struck a deal with St. Patrick in an effort to balance the gender roles.
It’s funny, though, that this apparently romantic idea of allowing women to do something they should always be able to do essentially prevents women from proposing at other times.
[fm_giphy url=”https://media.giphy.com/media/TrEnC5n5XcQlG/giphy.gif”]
Then there is a Canadian superstition that says pregnant women who crave fish should eat it, because if they don’t their babies will be born with a fish-head. But then again, if a pregnant woman eats a weirdly shaped food (what, exactly, qualifies as weirdly?), she might end up having an ugly baby, according to one Korean superstition.
[fm_giphy url=”https://media.giphy.com/media/4MWlalLi2QuG0GiacE/giphy.gif”]
In Greece, many believe that young, single women should eat the end of a bread loaf in order to ensure that their future mother-in-laws will like them.
[fm_giphy url=”https://media.giphy.com/media/XWqHD5x4NTKzS/giphy.gif”]
“Girls start fighting over who gets to eat the heel from as young as 5 years old,” according to Greek Reporter.
And definitely, don’t look into the mirror at midnight lest you become “ugly.”
[fm_giphy url=”https://media.giphy.com/media/SDvC8bZBRgfZe/giphy.gif”]
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/ByrEZdcHdzL/”]
According to Kristen Sollée, author of Witches, Sluts, Feminists: Conjuring the Sex Positive, women who were thought to be witches during the Renaissance were also believed to be in league with the Devil.
If she used nasty language, she’d be called a witch. Basically, superstitions were born of the mundane.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BxLEzNApTGy/”]
Today, though, witches and witchcraft are seeing a surge in popularity, with witchy book publishing on the rise and more people turning to the archetype of the witch for inspiration.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BvXAWv8B0uB/” hidecaption=true]
In fact, Wicca (even though certainly not every witch is Wiccan) is one of the fastest growing religions in the U.S.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BmQRVTKBsQJ/”]
According to the Pulitzer Center, “More than 2,500 Indians have been chased, tortured, and killed between 2000 and 2016, according to India’s National Crime Records Bureau… Witch hunts primarily target women and exploit India’s caste system and culture of patriarchy. Men who brand women as dakan, or a witch, capitalize on deeply rooted superstitions and systems built on misogyny and patriarchy to lay blame on females.”
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BycYtURB3Jt/” hidecaption=true]
Even though many of these women aren’t actual witches (though many practicing witches are good and kind people), they’re blamed for misfortunes anyway.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/BuwW5dhldWK/”]
For many, the thinking and superstitions surrounding women in general can be reclaimed, subverted, and used for empowerment by many women. That is, when they’re not actively being harmed.
[fm_instagram url=”https://www.instagram.com/p/ByBT0SuAgs4/”]
Think your job is weird? Buckle up, friend. There's a whole circus of careers out…
From stylish water carafes to smart alarm clocks, here are some must-have nightstand essentials that…
Making ice cream sandwiches at home is a fun and easy way to enjoy a…
Tired of tossing out leftovers or dealing with stale snacks? These smart sealing gadgets make…
Do you feel like your kitchen is cramped but still less functional than you want…
Ever ripped your favorite jeans or shirt and wished you had a magic wand to…