Even though I consider myself to be fairly lucky in terms of how far bullying went, it still happened. And a few big instances made me terrified to go back to school and face my bullies all over again. Cyberbullying is a completely different demon, as there’s no safe space to hide from the comments. I’ve had access to the internet since the 5th grade. But back then, not everyone knew what it was capable of.
As the years progressed and social networking became possible, people realized that the internet is one of the best avenues for bullying and trolling. Some trolls hide behind anonymous usernames or dummy accounts. Other people don’t even hide behind a mysterious screen name to harass others. Even worse, everyone can see if you’re being bullied, which is horrifying on a completely different level.
This is especially true of Instagram bullying. As a visual medium, it is easy to make a snap judgement on someone, be it for their clothing (or lack thereof) or their body’s shape. Influencers and regular folks alike have quit the platform after some harsh instances of Instagram bullying. Fortunately, the social media app announced that they’re taking steps to help remedy the problem. But, based on what we know, it’s hard to figure out whether or not their new plan will help prevent Instagram bullying.
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“In the last few days, we started rolling out a new feature powered by AI that notifies people when their comment may be considered offensive before it’s posted,” Adam Mosseri, Head of Instagram, said in a blog post. “From early tests of this feature, we have found that it encourages some people to undo their comment and share something less hurtful once they have had a chance to reflect.”
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That may help bullies stop and think before posting. But for someone who made an account just for bullying and being mean, they may shrug off this development.
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“Soon, we will begin testing a new way to protect your account from unwanted interactions called Restrict,” Mosseri wrote. “Once you Restrict someone, comments on your posts from that person will only be visible to that person. You can choose to make a restricted person’s comments visible to others by approving their comments.”
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That may, in turn, create additional issues down the road.
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The Megan Meier Foundation released some appalling stats in regards to how many students are bullied per year. As of June 2019, roughly 34% of students reported that they were cyberbullied in some form.
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The students who were bullied were also more vulnerable for self-harm and suicide. Words can deeply hurt and make someone feel like life won’t ever get better.
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Instead of shielding followers from the negative comment, maybe they can ban the bully from using their platform. By tracking an IP address, that process may be possible. Still, it is a massive platform with over 500 million daily active users, so it is a nearly impossible task to monitor every single like, comment, and photo.
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Regardless, it’s great that Instagram is trying hard to solve such an important issue. Bullying may never officially go away, but at least they’re going to make it slightly harder for people.
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It may be a joke to you, but it can cause real damage. If your Instagram account is more about putting people down than lifting them up, you should stop and think about whether or not you’d be comfortable with the guilt if you end up taking things too far.
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Obviously, you can report the account that is harassing you, but that can sometimes escalate an issue. If you can, report and block the user, and keep your eyes peeled for any fake-looking accounts that start following you after you have blocked them. If someone threatens physical harm, you can go to the police.
If you have thoughts of self-harm or suicide, know that you are not alone. You can call the Suicide Hotline at 1-(800)-273-8255 for guidance.
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